Part 2
We slept in till 3 in the afternoon, then had some Ollie’s Noodles. Mmm… it makes me want to have some dumplings right now. It was so hot and muggy out, and Times Square is possibly the most crowded place in the world.
Back in the hotel room, Jay and I made love some more, slept some more, then woke up at around 7 in the evening. I had been calling CJ all day, trying to connect so we could meet up tonight at the art opening at Art At Large.
The Film Center Building has these great looking metal vents in the lobby. The security guard had a big sign next to him saying “All guests must register.” But he waved us to the elevator saying, “7th floor.”
On the 7th floor, the guests at the reception had overflowed into the hallway. It was so crowded, and so hot. I heard someone say, “Jay.” It was Grady Turner, curator of that night’s show, and of the inaugural exhibition at the Museum of Sex.
“Finally we meet,” I shook his hand. That night I also met gallery owner Pet Silvia and Tammy Stubbs.
If I was an erotic art collector, I would buy:
* Blue Kimono, by George Clark – I like how drippy the paint is. Gravity plays a role in both content and form.
* Almost Close To Heaven, by Marina Tsesarskaya – The only piece in this show that deals with the subject of a woman’s pleasure.
* Untitled, by David Brody – This one is a sentimental choice. I have a series of paintings I did when I was a teen, of a woman with her hair in the air. Like this painting, mine were very minimal and symetrical nudes. This piece would be a nice addition.
* and of course, The Moon and I – the menstrual flow is quite possibly the least photographed, yet most often-occuring event in a woman’s life. This piece is my celebration of it.
Mitch parked his cab downstairs and popped into the gallery to see the art. He gave me a kiss, then turned to Jay and kissed him on the mouth. Watching them kiss so publicly turned me on a bit. Mitch left right away, though. He was on the clock.
It was so hot at the gallery, so we hung out at the lobby waiting for CJ. She arrived with another gorgeous black woman, and introduced her as Toy. They were roommates in Spanish Harlem, but did not share the same style. CJ is an uptight strict Ivy League grad, and Toy wears gold chains and sports jerseys. We had dinner across the Film Center Building. Toy had just gotten out of a relationship, and flirted openly with our hot latina server.
Then as we were walking back to our hotel, it rained. Hard. I tucked myself under Toy’s umbrella, while CJ and Jay braved the rain.


Hi May,
It was a pleasure to meet you and Jay in person. I hope you liked the show, and that your brief stay in NYC was a fun break.
We’ll keep the light on the porch in anticipation of your next visit.
Best,
Grady
hey there. its wonderful to hear you two had such a great time in new york. i just wanted to ask you to lay down some more philosophy on the people. show off that sexy mind of yours some more girl. mmmh mmmh mmmh. i was reading marcuse the other day and thought of you. the essay ‘ on hedonism ‘, dig it. also i played some of those compositions by ellington inspired by the moon for you on the radio here in the city. it was nice. hope all is well.
Thank you!
Hi, I’m a big fan of yours. I was dying to go to the gallery opening during the summer where your art was gonna be displayed. The one of your period blood on the mirror. I was smoking a joint with some friends on the way there, I was a few blocks away…and then I got arrested for smoking in public. I was so fucking pissed. I just had to spend a night in jail, but the thing I was pissed most about was that I didn’t get to see you that day. I still want to see that video of you fucking the cab driver in NYC. That sounds cool. Is there anything new that you’ve been doing?
Hello, Damian. I’m sorry to hear about what happened to you. That is a bummer indeed. I’ll let you know in the future when I’ll be making any more NYC appearances. Maybe we can share the joint on the way there next time. Indoors. LOL
“Nasty New York Cab Ride” is the best work I’ve done to date, in my opinion. My latest video release is “Men’s Room/Good Girl.” That was fun, too, but I guess having kinky sex in the back of the cab is a pretty hard act to follow.
Wow. Is this really May? Damn, it’s like you’re a celebrity to me, haha.
Hell yeah, I’d love to smoke a joint with you girl, any time!!!
Damn, I have such an interest in your stuff. I love the way you involve like kinky, sexy, porno-ish things into things like art. Well, I think if you find true dedication to making a porno, then that’s your art, right? So are you really like a porn star? lol, I can’t believe I’m asking somebody that, haha. But for real, there’s always been something inside of me that’s wanted to do something like that. Something just so out there on a sexual level, like porn! haha. And that’s the kind of stuff you do, and of course there’s bunch of people who do things like that, but I came across your site and it made me want to learn more about whatever it was I was looking at. And I saw the Max Hardcore section of your site, and I was like “Got Damn! This chick is crazy!!!” and I thought that was so cool. that put me on to Max Hardcore and I saw some crazy shit about him. Haha, and then I saw the NYC Cab ride, and again I was like wow…this girl!!! she’s cute too!!! ~It’s just cool the shit that you’re doing, well, I can’t say I know the most about you, but I remember reading on your site, that you were busy all day in meetings. If you don’t mind telling me, what kind of meetings. I guess somebody who spends all day in meetings has to have a good life for themselves somewhat. So that’s why I think you’re cool. You just satisfy something inside of me, like media wise and on an intellectual, sexual level. Maybe you understand that, maybe I’m just talking shit, but I’d still love to learn more about other sexy things that you’ve done, like other events or movies or anything that you’ve done. I want to get into a new crazy scene in the city. Like some really, crazy, fun, shit. ~Well, where do you live? Are you from NYC? I’d be interested in meeting you still, even though it won’t be at a gallery opening. What kind of stuff do you like doing on your free time? I’d really be down for smokin a J w/ you, so it’s be my pleasure to meet you May-Ling, I even like your name. What nationality are you? Well, anyways,…love to hear from you again. Bye. Take care.
Sincerely…
Damian