I don’t know anyone, man or woman, who is as good as Jay at licking pussy. He’s the only one who’s ever brought me to orgasm through his cunnilingus skill. I knew immediately he was rare, and that I would do anything to keep him for good.
Most men I’ve met have no interest in going down there. Although they welcome the gift of fellatio, they think they can show their gratitude simply by fucking my brains out, which really isn’t all that bad, as long as I’m not always left alone to finish myself off while they shower.
Some men with good intentions just plain don’t know how to give head. I’ve been with a few who thought they had to suck really hard on my clitoris, others who thought pleasuring me meant sticking their tongues as deep in my cunt as they could muster. If a guy is worth hanging out with in other ways, I invest in the time to teach him how to do it. For ladies, this is the best way to go about it. Don’t just settle for a mediocre sex life, but don’t lose a good man in a vain attempt to find The Tongue. I taught my first boyfriend how to perform cunnilingus, and felt really heartbroken when things didn’t work out between us. Hopefully someone is enjoying the extensive training I put him through.
My good karma blessed me with Jay, who was trained by another woman way before I met him. So you see, ladies, what goes around does come around.
As for women, most who claim to be bisexual don’t suck pussy well at all. At least I’ve never met one who was as enthusiastic about eating my cunt as I was about eating hers. Most women I’ve played with just really like to kiss and rub each others’ tits. I’ve been with a butch dyke too, and although she was enthusiastic, she spent much more time fistfucking me than getting me off with her mouth.
The truth is performing cunnilingus on a lover takes a lot of work. That’s why for me, enthusiasm goes further than skill. Cunnilingus techniques can be learned, and applied with variations based on each woman’s preference. Tongue muscle can build up to longer stints of cunnilingual play, especially for those times when an orgasm seems elusive. But first one must be absolutely excited to taste cunt, to watch a woman writhe in ecstacy, cheeks flushed and begging for a fucking when she’s at the brink of orgasm. I promise you, the rewards are worth it.
Do you tutor in the art of cunnilingus?
I have a selected few students. ;-D It’s like martial arts, a true sensei must be very selective of her students, lest they give her a bad name. Most of the time I’m really taoist about my lovers. I flow with the river, trying not to change anyone. I teach only those who ask to be taught.
Teach me sensei. I have been trained well, but I need more lessens. I listen and learn like a little ladybug.
As with any sport or activity, practice makes perfect. The best scenario is to have a (very honest and helpful) female friend/lover to practice with. Until then, there are several food items I like to practise cunnilingus skills on:
First, a cherry stem. You may have already heard of this one. Pop a cherry stem in your mouth and tie it into a knot using only your tongue. This builds tongue muscle and gets you ready for the variety of swirls you will be able to do around your lover’s clitoris.
Second, a juicy peach. Devour its flesh without using your teeth. Use the suction of your lips and your tongue alone. Enjoy letting the juices run down your chin. This will get you used to the fuzzy skin and juices of a woman’s pussy.
Third and most challenging for some, escargot. Cook it still in the shell. I like cooking it in coconut milk. When ready and not too hot, take the shell in between your thumb and index finger, find the hole and suck the flesh out of the shell and into your mouth. As with the peach, do not use your teeth. Use only the suction of your mouth and your tongue to accomplish this task.
When you get the chance to practice on your lover, ask her to let you know how she likes it, whether verbally or just by holding your head as you go down on her. Every woman is different, so it’s always good to keep communication lines open. Some women like only light butterfly licks all over her inner thighs and groin area. Some women like to be sucked on her clitoris in between tongue swirls. Some woman like a lot of pressure on her pussy, and for some, less is more. Even the same woman may want it differently each time, depending perhaps on the time of the month. There is no one way to do it. But the food exercises above will help get the equipment (your tongue and lips) ready for whatever comes your way.
Some may even like finger penetration of either the vagina or the anus or both while your mouth is busy on her clit. Just make sure you keep track of which finger went in where. It’s important that what went in the anus does not penetrate her vagina. This will cause bacterial problems that make the pussy smell bad. Not only will she hate you for it, you lose too if she stinks down there.
The most important thing is commitment. Commit to pleasuring her until she has an orgasm. Some men put in their bare minimum then think it’s okay to just get up and fuck her. Wouldn’t you feel more manly if you can make her cum several times in one night? So commit to at least one of her orgasms coming from cunnilingual play. As soon as she cums, that’s your cue to jump up and take your reward. I know I always beg for a fucking when I get my orgasm, but usually not before then.
Enjoy!
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