Swingers?
I don’t consider Jay and myself as swingers. “Swinging” makes me think of moving swiftly from vine to vine, one set of partners to another. To me, couples who actively seek out hook-ups every weekend would be considered swingers. Anyone who puts out an ad on craigslist stating they want a “no strings attached” or NSA hook-up is a swinger.
I don’t do NSA. I’m looking to connect with people body and mind. I’m looking for lifelong friends. Friendship is so important to me, that often I find myself holding back from initiating a sexy moment because I’m afraid of scaring my friend off and losing our friendship. I will always prioritize friendship over a fleeting moment.
This is why we don’t have many lovers. I tend to go for quality sexual encounters rather than quantity. I would rather explore many different ways of making love with just one person, than have sex the same way with several people. I love talking about sex and attraction and relationships and feelings and desires before, during and after we’ve rolled in the hay. Long before and long after. Often lovers move away and all we have is the phone or email. I cherish those connections nonetheless.
Hi guys! just thought I’d stop in and say hi…. been a long time. Email me back and let me know how you are both doing.
-Marc
Interesting…