Lesson for the Ladies
Jay shared an interesting story with me today. He had been corresponding with a married couple over the past month. Like us, they have offspring. Just recently they had their first threesome with a single guy. It went well, they all had a great time, until the woman ran away with the guy. Shortly thereafter, the guy dumped the woman and now she wants to return to her husband and kids. The husband is holding out a bit, hurt by her actions and sort of enjoying his newfound singlehood at the moment. No happy ending here. Just something to think about.
Ladies, remember that the allure of enjoying sex with a woman without the prospect of a committed relationship is what straight single men desire when entering a threesome scenario with a couple. (Bisexual men have altogether a different intention.) Infatuation can be a powerful illusion of love, and unknown possibilities may seem more delectable than familiarity. Don’t be fooled. If your relationship is so good that you are capable of letting lovemaking overflow to more partners than the two of you, then protect it, keep it safe, enjoy the warm security of the man who knows and loves you the most.
In Juliette, the Marquis de Sade wrote:
“‘Tis a long and wearisome study for a wife, to come to know her husband; and once the job’s done, there’s no need for her to have to begin anew with another; and it is not sure that the second will be any improvement upon the first… success is better assured by long habit than by novelty.
“… variety, multiplicity are the two most powerful vehicles of lust. Fuck with the maximum possible number of men; nothing so much amuses, so much heats the brain as profusion; no one in this crowd will be unable to afford you some new pleasure, be it but the pleasure of one conformation or gesture the more, and, my child, you know nothing at all if all you are acquainted with is one prick. Were you to be served by an army, it could make no difference to your husband: you’ll agree that he won’t be more dishonored by the thousandth than he was by the first, indeed he’ll be less dishonored, for it does seem that one somehow effaces the other. Furthermore, if he is reasonable, the husband is always much more prone to excuse libertinage than love; the one offends personally, the other assumes the look of a mere flaw in your physical make-up.”
(Translation by Austryn Wainhouse)
