You read that right, I have begun password protecting some of my entries, which is strange coming from an internet exhibitionist like me. I’m sure you’re wondering why, after so many years of baring my skin and spreading my legs for the camera, am I suddenly shy. What else have I got to hide from the people who’ve seen virtually every pore on my body and even peeked inside my private parts?

The truth is I have been holding out on you, my dear blog viewers. I’ve had photos that I have kept hidden in my hard drive, photos I’ve felt were a bit more revealing than I was comfortable with having up 24/7 for any stranger or familiar to see. Not to mention archived photos from way back when I used to maintain a members-only pay site, now stored in a hard drive in a safe deposit box in California.

I really don’t want to have another members site. That is just so early 2000’s! I’ve done it. It wasn’t that satisfying. I’m over it. Now is the age of Radiohead and Prince freeing their music. Now is the age of Porn 2.0 - a more fulfilling exhibitionistic/voyeuristic experience based not on the impersonal swipe of a credit card, but on real social relationships.

I want to develop real virtual relationships, a community of smart and sexy people. My password protected posts are accessible by invitation only, for people I have come to consider as friends and worthwhile contributors to the quality of my sexual experience. I want something to share with these valued contributors, a virtual space made valuable by its relative exclusivity.

There is only one way to be invited: Woo me.

Let me count the ways you can earn my virtual affection:

1. Interact with me. Let me know what you think of my blog entries by leaving a comment. I love attention! Say something funny or flatter me to pieces. Fill in your real email address so I can send you a little note, with maybe a password to my protected entries. Toss in a link to your blog, so I can get to know you, too. If you are on any of the social networking sites that I am also on, be my friend. Send me comments, write on my wall, follow me. I’m on Adult Friend Finder, Facebook, Flickr, MySpace, Twitter and YouTube.
2. Show me your hotness! If you’ve already sent me a link to your blog or added me as a friend on any of the social networking sites mentioned above, then this is redundant. If you have no internet presence beyond your email address, send me sexy photos of you (and if you have a hot significant other, both of you). Email jpg’s to maylingsu at gmail dot com.
3. Make me your muse. I love getting artwork inspired by my image. Draw me, paint me, carve me into marble, whatever it is you do, photograph/scan it and send me a jpg. I am unapologetically narcissistic and vain, but you already knew that.

None of these guarantee an invitation. Invites are still purely subject to my whims. If you don’t get invited right away, try harder. Yes, harder. Show me what you’ve got, and you’ll see how much more there is to see of me.