Comments on: Being a John http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/ International Muse Sat, 04 Feb 2012 12:49:42 -0500 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: Eddie Corso http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-19019 Eddie Corso Fri, 12 Feb 2010 13:20:07 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-19019 If I was going to pay for "full service" I'd go to the land of smiles. $300 would go a long way in BKK or Pattaya. I can't imagine anyone paying $3,300 for a single sexual encounter. Especially for poor customer service. If I was going to pay for “full service” I’d go to the land of smiles. $300 would go a long way in BKK or Pattaya. I can’t imagine anyone paying $3,300 for a single sexual encounter. Especially for poor customer service.

]]> By: KinkyPriest http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-15305 KinkyPriest Sun, 28 Dec 2008 07:51:30 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-15305 My girlfriend hired twins for me one year on my birthday. It was very nice. B) My girlfriend hired twins for me one year on my birthday. It was very nice. B)

]]> By: Eddie http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-14185 Eddie Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:53:29 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-14185 Normally I would leave my full name, but in this case I feel a little discretion is good, in case an over-eager HR guy decides to do an in depth Google search. Anyways, I had a wonderful experience that was of the pay-for-play variety. This was with a transsexual, a beautiful Latina with artfully crafted breasts and an uncut cock. I came to the door of her apartment and she let me in, she asked me how my day was, and we sat on the couch together for a few minutes. She put her fingers through my hair and told me how cute I was and then stood me up and drew me into a deep french kiss as her hands slid deftly down my back and cupped my ass bringing us together. She then whispered in my ear to put her gift on the dresser if I was enjoying her company. I slid an envelope on her dresser and the night began in earnest. It was slow, warm, and passionate. There was soft touches and we both eventually came. The hour was up but we sat talking for an hour and a half afterwards. It turns out she thought I was cute and seemed like a gentle man and was attracted to me. We ended up dating a few times in the following weeks, sans payment for her time. A wonderful and unexpected experience. I only wish we had not lost touch. She felt her career as it was did not lend itself to having serious relationships, and a month after we met the dates stopped and she faded away back into the night. Normally I would leave my full name, but in this case I feel a little discretion is good, in case an over-eager HR guy decides to do an in depth Google search.

Anyways, I had a wonderful experience that was of the pay-for-play variety. This was with a transsexual, a beautiful Latina with artfully crafted breasts and an uncut cock. I came to the door of her apartment and she let me in, she asked me how my day was, and we sat on the couch together for a few minutes. She put her fingers through my hair and told me how cute I was and then stood me up and drew me into a deep french kiss as her hands slid deftly down my back and cupped my ass bringing us together. She then whispered in my ear to put her gift on the dresser if I was enjoying her company. I slid an envelope on her dresser and the night began in earnest.

It was slow, warm, and passionate. There was soft touches and we both eventually came. The hour was up but we sat talking for an hour and a half afterwards. It turns out she thought I was cute and seemed like a gentle man and was attracted to me.

We ended up dating a few times in the following weeks, sans payment for her time. A wonderful and unexpected experience. I only wish we had not lost touch. She felt her career as it was did not lend itself to having serious relationships, and a month after we met the dates stopped and she faded away back into the night.

]]> By: Boont http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-14184 Boont Tue, 18 Mar 2008 16:59:51 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-14184 It is really hard to get past her mercenary attitude. She seems kind of like the bad stripper archetype. All the bad parts - efficient at separating you from your money, over-promising about how good she is, and displaying contempt for you in all possible ways - without any of the fun that normally comes along with sex: exploration, intimacy, passion, connection. I've had an experience like that in the States. I expected the money to be something that was handled quickly so the fun could flow uninterrupted. Instead I was milked for every dollar continually. When I finally demurred, she was out the door in a flash. I felt like a total sap. I was pissed and embarrassed. You at least got a photo, I got a $650 handjob. It isn't all bad, a friend had a completely different experience on vacation in Thailand. Unrushed, playful fun. I was going to say it probably has a fair amount to do with the different amounts of money involved relative to local costs, but maybe it is just a cultural difference in how prostitutes consider the profession. It is really hard to get past her mercenary attitude. She seems kind of like the bad stripper archetype. All the bad parts – efficient at separating you from your money, over-promising about how good she is, and displaying contempt for you in all possible ways – without any of the fun that normally comes along with sex: exploration, intimacy, passion, connection.

I’ve had an experience like that in the States. I expected the money to be something that was handled quickly so the fun could flow uninterrupted. Instead I was milked for every dollar continually. When I finally demurred, she was out the door in a flash. I felt like a total sap. I was pissed and embarrassed. You at least got a photo, I got a $650 handjob.

It isn’t all bad, a friend had a completely different experience on vacation in Thailand. Unrushed, playful fun. I was going to say it probably has a fair amount to do with the different amounts of money involved relative to local costs, but maybe it is just a cultural difference in how prostitutes consider the profession.

]]> By: Andrew F. http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-14183 Andrew F. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 01:48:20 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-14183 I've paid for it once in san francisco... it was pretty disappointing as well. She wasn't really my type being blonde but she was petite so that a plus. I'm a pretty affectionate person and I like to explore...while I could let my hands roam, the boundaries she had up were thick. On top of that it felt rushed and didnt even feel that great. She gave good head but head with a condom is just not worth it. At least it only cost me 800$. I doubt I'll pay for it again...I dont really need to but I wanted the experience. I’ve paid for it once in san francisco… it was pretty disappointing as well. She wasn’t really my type being blonde but she was petite so that a plus. I’m a pretty affectionate person and I like to explore…while I could let my hands roam, the boundaries she had up were thick. On top of that it felt rushed and didnt even feel that great. She gave good head but head with a condom is just not worth it. At least it only cost me 800$. I doubt I’ll pay for it again…I dont really need to but I wanted the experience.

]]> By: Minty Fresh http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-14182 Minty Fresh Thu, 13 Mar 2008 14:26:13 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-14182 I admire and commend you for sharing this and other stories that don’t necessarily have the fairy tale ending (I guess there is little to no sex in traditional fairy tales). I’ve often thought about what it might be like to experience a paid for sexual event, but have worried that it would turn out like your story. I’d feel empty and a little lighter in the wallet. I admire and commend you for sharing this and other stories that don’t necessarily have the fairy tale ending (I guess there is little to no sex in traditional fairy tales). I’ve often thought about what it might be like to experience a paid for sexual event, but have worried that it would turn out like your story. I’d feel empty and a little lighter in the wallet.

]]> By: Jonathan http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-14181 Jonathan Thu, 13 Mar 2008 04:26:41 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-14181 Greetings May I visit prostitutes here in NZ. When I am between partners, which is sometimes longer than I would like. I never visit parlours/ brothels as I don't see the point in spending twice what I need to just to be in a fantasy themed room. I don't use outcalls because an extra hour is charged in 'travelling' time. I do visit suburban brothels, where 3-4 women rent an ordinary house to work from (and where they don't have to give 50% to the brothel owner). These ladies charge between NZ$60-80 for 1/2 an hour and NZ$100-NZ$120 for an hour. BDSM and watersports etc. comes with an extra NZ$40-60 surcharge. Sex without passion/desire is nowhere near as good as with it. However there are a No. of beautiful (and I mean within themselves not just appealing to look at) Japanese, Cambodian and Thai women who certainly do not make their job seem like a chore. For a number of years I had the pleasure of seeing a lovely Cambodian woman (she has now quit working). We were able to have very companionable times together coupled with great sex. Thanks for your post and the chance to share a little of my experience. Regards, J.B. Greetings May
I visit prostitutes here in NZ. When I am between partners, which is sometimes longer than I would like. I never visit parlours/ brothels as I don’t see the point in spending twice what I need to just to be in a fantasy themed room. I don’t use outcalls because an extra hour is charged in ‘travelling’ time. I do visit suburban brothels, where 3-4 women rent an ordinary house to work from (and where they don’t have to give 50% to the brothel owner). These ladies charge between NZ$60-80 for 1/2 an hour and NZ$100-NZ$120 for an hour. BDSM and watersports etc. comes with an extra NZ$40-60 surcharge. Sex without passion/desire is nowhere near as good as with it. However there are a No. of beautiful (and I mean within themselves
not just appealing to look at) Japanese, Cambodian and Thai women who certainly do not make their job seem like a chore.
For a number of years I had the pleasure of seeing a lovely Cambodian woman (she has now quit working). We were able to have very companionable times together coupled with great sex.
Thanks for your post and the chance to share a little of my experience. Regards, J.B.

]]> By: Gar Byrum http://maylingsu.com/2008/03/being-a-john/comment-page-1/#comment-14180 Gar Byrum Wed, 12 Mar 2008 13:23:16 +0000 http://www.maylingsu.com/fixxx/2008/03/11/being-a-john/#comment-14180 Vegas is not the place for a true GF experience. Vegas is all about the money. I can see you have not had the best of luck, lately. You don't want someone who is on the clock. It is best to pre-arrange all the details. If a person seeks to re-negotiate forget it, unless you are the person asking for new terms. When I was young I had a great experience in Vienna, Austria. After a bottle of champagne we enjoyed each other fully. She was a blonde who was quite taken with her body. I am sure that if you are patient you will find a woman who will meet all of your expectations and fulfill all of your fantasies. Don't expect passion from a GF, it is a business after all. The trick is to find one who will please you without letting you feel that it is a business transaction. Are you going to find a hot woman for Jay? Would you be jealous? Vegas is not the place for a true GF experience. Vegas is all about the money. I can see you have not had the best of luck, lately. You don’t want someone who is on the clock. It is best to pre-arrange all the details. If a person seeks to re-negotiate forget it, unless you are the person asking for new terms. When I was young I had a great experience in Vienna, Austria. After a bottle of champagne we enjoyed each other fully. She was a blonde who was quite taken with her body. I am sure that if you are patient you will find a woman who will meet all of your expectations and fulfill all of your fantasies. Don’t expect passion from a GF, it is a business after all. The trick is to find one who will please you without letting you feel that it is a business transaction. Are you going to find a hot woman for Jay? Would you be jealous?

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