I had not been aware of the term and concept of the “Hot Wife” until Sam introduced it to me over a month ago. The “Hot Wife,” I gather, is a married woman who pursues extramarital relations with other men, while her husband does not. Some husbands would consider themselves cuckolds, while others resist the label, implying that cuckolds require an element of humiliation in the relationship. The word “cuckold” it seems, is a loaded term. But more on that later.

Our Hotwives is a really exciting forum for hot wives, cuckolds and polyamorous folks.

Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man? is an interesting topic to get your feet wet when exploring the Hot Wife lifestyle.

Maria’s Updates and Experiences follows the evolution of a woman from faithful wife to Hot Wife in real time. The very honest thoughts of the husband as his wife goes off on trysts with other men is engaging to say the least. A very good (and very hot!) lesson for those aspiring toward the Hot Wife lifestyle.

Better To Have a Sexy Wife is one man’s confession of how he wound up with a hot sexy wife.

Psychology Today has an article showing no evidence of monogamy being “natural” and serial monogamy being a way people satisfy their natural tendency to desire multiple partners and yet still hold to the moral ideal of this monogamous society.

Women are built for multiple lovers – multiple ports, you see. It’s natural. Men, on the other hand, do tend to be built for one woman only. With one main apparatus to work with, men can team up more naturally on one woman than one man can spread himself thin to pleasure several.

Now, about cuckolds. Traditionally, the term “cuckold” is used on a man who is “unaware of his victimization,” the husband who is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. It has evolved into a fetish, with the husband either assuming the role of submissive supporter of his dominant wife’s encounters with an alpha-male or assuming a dominant voyeuristic role of instigator.

Candy Monroe bills herself as The Cuckold Queen, a femdomme who “once a week… humiliate(s) a new sissy whiteboy with the help of (my) horse-hung black studs.

The Cuckold’s and Cuckolder’s Guide can clear things up for those who are interested.

As a parting thought, I want to share a tidbit from Maria’s Updates and Experiences, contributed by her husband, Tom:

“A little aside on the evolution of our thinking. Long before any of these stories we’ve told so far and long before we knew what a hotwife was, while on our honeymoon in Greece, we were shopping in a small store for swim wear. We were talking about having just been married (most all of the couples there were also newly married), and an old Greek woman who overheard us talking singled us out and said to my wife, “Let me tell you: the secret to a happy and long marriage is to never let your husband be too sure that he has you –always keep him wondering.” Mrs_hotwifecplsa said, “oh really??” And the old woman continued, “Yes! If he gets too comfortable knowing you’ll always be there, he will take you for granted. He can’t help it –he’s a man. Dress up and put your makeup on even when there’s no need to, don’t always turn away when you catch a man looking at you, let him see you talking to a man that has showed an interest in you, and come home late sometimes! If you want him to want you every time he sees you, keep him wondering and not too sure that you’re always his!”