It’s 90 degrees here in California. I’m knee deep in the Pacific Ocean waves wearing a bikini playing with my wee one. I toss my head back laughing and make eye contact with a sexy surfer walking on the beach carrying his surf board. He smiles.
I can feel my smile warm me up from head to toe. I’m a happily married mother and I’m flirting with a stranger. I do it all the time. Online and offline, with a smile, a few words typed or spoken, I spice up my life with flirtatious interactions with people, and it’s okay. Actually it’s more than okay. It’s very, very good.
3 Reasons Why Married People Should Flirt
- We’re married, not dead. There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging beauty when it’s right in front of us. The sensory world is a joy to behold. I say, live! Enjoy life to its fullest! Appreciate the gifts mother nature bestows. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may. Life is too short and will be over in a blink of an eye. You get what I mean.
- It makes us feel sexy. Flirting makes me feel vibrant, young and sexy. Later on when I come home to my husband I am all juiced up, brimming with powerful woman energy and ready to spread the sexy all around.
- It can get us freebies. Though flirting for flirting’s sake is enough reason to do it, it doesn’t hurt that I’ve gotten a few perks from it. I flirt with pretty much anyone I come in contact with. You’d be surprised what people will do for you if you’re nice. The workaday world can get so drab and numbing. Flirting reminds people that they’re not machines.
Some of the people I flirt with I would be willing to bring home for a threesome. Others I flirt with just for the moment. As with any other kind of communication, be honest with the person you are flirting with. Don’t say anything you won’t do. Include your lover in the fun of flirting by sharing your escapades. It could ignite a sexy moment, or if not, at least engage each other in a conversation about how you feel about it.
How about you? Are you married and flirting? How do you feel about your lover doing the same?
I’ve lived in countries where basically no one flirted. If it was
American style flirting, it was actually seduction. Thank Buddha
for flirting in America!
How do you always get in my head and transcribe exactly what I’m thinking??
Amen, Ra.
@James, I may be omniscient.
I’ve long been into the “hot wife” experience so it’s probably no surprise that I get turned-on watching my gf flirt with other guys. It’s cool to see you talking about that too, as most people tend to overlook that aspect of the experience, and it’s one of the “hotter” elements in my opinion.
It seems your whole life is dedicated to sex, which sounds very fun. Have you ever considered how life will turn out 30 or 40 years down the road? Obviuosly you will still have sex on a regular basis, but I’m not sure if there will be as many strangers coming and going on a daily basis. Perhaps you can open a sex shop or become a sex expo organizer?