Have a look at these Dunnies all painted up like the badass bunnies that they are. Aren’t they the baddest bunch? There’s also these Smorkin’ Labbits, adorably orally fixated little bunnies, not as badass as the Dunnies, but would make great supporting bad guys in a bunny action flick any day.

The Bunnyfish is a bit of a departure from the classic badass bunny, but I just had to have one. Who better to represent my inner mermaid/bunny self than my very own Bunnyfish (which I plan on naming when it arrives - I still don’t know if it’s a he or a she. I decided to wait. Got any suggestions)?

Enough cuteness! Now on to toys of the… uhrm… sexual variety. I love my Rabbit Pearl Vibrator. Bunny ears tickle my clit and pearls churn at my opening. I don’t know any man who can do what my Rabbit Pearl can! I’ve had this toy for a long time, and it’s still a fun fave.

A few months back Jay got me the little white rabbit that could. It’s handy for quick zip-zip’s when I need a little perk in the day, and so much fucking fun when I’m playing with Jay.

Now the ultimate badass bunnies: my favorite porn stars Sasha Grey and Dana DeArmond bouncing their fuzzy tails and playing with their butts. Anal toys in and out between whiskery licks, it’s the cutest anal porn video I have ever seen. I love them! The video is called Anal Acrobats; Fleshbot turned me on to it.

Now you know what you can stuff my stocking with. Happy Toy Shopping, my horny bunnies!!!

If anyone wants me this week, I’ll be in the kitchen.

Thanksgiving Dinner has only been a 4 year tradition for me. Prior to meeting Jay, Thanksgiving Dinner used to be just another day off from work and oodles of noodles and pork with my family. When I met Jay I started to understand that Thanksgiving Dinner is a celebration of the friendship between white people and the natives of America. Let’s rephrase that. Thanksgiving celebrates the survival of the natives, despite the horrible things that have been done to them in the name of imperialism. It became a celebration of Jay himself, who descended from Dutch, Irish and Blackfoot ancestors. Rocky that relationship may be between the natives and the Euro-Americans, the brief moment of union between the two still brought about the creation of a truly amazing person, and in the big picture an America that is colorful.

Four years ago, I started cooking Thanksgiving Dinner. After having gone to Jay’s family dinners for many years, I learned what makes a traditional Thanksgiving meal. After I gave birth to my baby four years ago, I wanted to thank all the wonderful people who helped me through what was the most challenging and life-changing event in my life. I am the mother of a truly colorful child whose ancestors are Blackfoot, Dutch, Filipino, Irish, Spanish and everything else in between.

So I cook. And I thank. And I eat!!!

When Equus opened in London in 2007, there were promotional photos released of nude Daniel Radcliffe with a beautiful white horse.

Then soon after a full frontal penis photo circulated around the net…

… which apparently was a Photoshop hoax.

September this year, Equus opened on Broadway. And because the American audience is so much hornier and more irreverent than the British audience, it wasn’t long before photos taken with a cel phone circulated online, and now a video. Thank you, mighty satanic technological breakthroughs, for this fleeting moment of seedy pleasure.

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This is the third year Nerdcore is coming out with an ubersexy 12-month calendar, and every year I love the geeky ways they show off the female form. In 2007, they featured nude and semi-nude women playing games 12 different ways, from arcade coin-ops to handhelds. In 2008, they had superheroes and supervillains revealing the supple sexy skin under their tough facades.

I’m really excited about the 2009 Nerdcore calendar, which explores sci-fi themes. I love sci-fi and can’t wait to be inspired by all 12 spreads. The photo above features a nude Justine Joli, geek girl porn star, being carried off by a robot on the moon. Fleshbot has several preview photos of the 2009 Nerdcore calendar and some behind the scenes shots.

Our Hotwives is a really exciting forum for hot wives, cuckolds and polyamorous folks.

Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man? is an interesting topic to get your feet wet when exploring the Hot Wife lifestyle.

Maria’s Updates and Experiences follows the evolution of a woman from faithful wife to Hot Wife in real time. The very honest thoughts of the husband as his wife goes off on trysts with other men is engaging to say the least. A very good (and very hot!) lesson for those aspiring toward the Hot Wife lifestyle.

Better To Have a Sexy Wife is one man’s confession of how he wound up with a hot sexy wife.

Psychology Today has an article showing no evidence of monogamy being “natural” and serial monogamy being a way people satisfy their natural tendency to desire multiple partners and yet still hold to the moral ideal of this monogamous society.

Women are built for multiple lovers - multiple ports, you see. It’s natural. Men, on the other hand, do tend to be built for one woman only. With one main apparatus to work with, men can team up more naturally on one woman than one man can spread himself thin to pleasure several.

Now, about cuckolds. Traditionally, the term “cuckold” is used on a man who is “unaware of his victimization,” the husband who is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. It has evolved into a fetish, with the husband either assuming the role of submissive supporter of his dominant wife’s encounters with an alpha-male or assuming a dominant voyeuristic role of instigator.

Candy Monroe bills herself as The Cuckold Queen, a femdomme who “once a week… humiliate(s) a new sissy whiteboy with the help of (my) horse-hung black studs.

The Cuckold’s and Cuckolder’s Guide can clear things up for those who are interested.

As a parting thought, I want to share a tidbit from Maria’s Updates and Experiences, contributed by her husband, Tom:

“A little aside on the evolution of our thinking. Long before any of these stories we’ve told so far and long before we knew what a hotwife was, while on our honeymoon in Greece, we were shopping in a small store for swim wear. We were talking about having just been married (most all of the couples there were also newly married), and an old Greek woman who overheard us talking singled us out and said to my wife, “Let me tell you: the secret to a happy and long marriage is to never let your husband be too sure that he has you –always keep him wondering.” Mrs_hotwifecplsa said, “oh really??” And the old woman continued, “Yes! If he gets too comfortable knowing you’ll always be there, he will take you for granted. He can’t help it –he’s a man. Dress up and put your makeup on even when there’s no need to, don’t always turn away when you catch a man looking at you, let him see you talking to a man that has showed an interest in you, and come home late sometimes! If you want him to want you every time he sees you, keep him wondering and not too sure that you’re always his!”

Playing sport games on Wii is awesome. Wii tries to get gamers off the couch and get their bodies moving. Other games don’t translate well, though, and got us hooking our old Game Cube controllers back up.

Of course it crossed my mind to play Wii naked. That’s an easy leap! Here are a bunch of girls already playing Topless Wii.

Spotted on Fleshbot.

I’m feeling really good today, so not only am I also posting a WMV version of the podcast video above, I am also going to give away a 24-hour access pass into MAYCAM to those who comment below - and please be creative. Woo me! Monosyllabic lame comments will not be acceptable. Comments must be timestamped before November 6, 2008 9 am to qualify.

My entire life I have yearned. I’m a yearner. I feel like I’m supposed to be living a very rich decadent life style full of pleasure, sex, comraderie, excitement, travel, creativity, so I aspire to meet up with that feeling. I need to find my little place under the sun to be happy. So here I am on my journey. Taking it one step at a time, but always wanting more, because there is more to be had. I’ll know it when I get there, but for now it’s the journey I’m excited about. Having fun along the way is part of the plan for me, and a relaxed sexy life is what I want, not a frenzied battle to the top, so I’m in no hurry “to get there”.

What I want, my goal, seems to be more of a feeling than a tangible, explainable object. I want life to feel good. Calm but exciting, protected, inspired. I want light to come through a stained glass window, and fill the space with an illuminated glow. That’s how I want life to feel. Ethereal. I find that fun sexy times are like that. Lazy, rolling around in sheets, curtains blowing with a soft summer breeze, shifting the quality of light in the room. It keeps coming down to the lighting… certain spaces, and their quality of light hits my heart. Hits my soul like love. Dark churches with stained glass can make me feel that way. Rooms with long curtains shifting so the light shifts with it… I find that the closest way to explain how I want to feel. With any luck, that’s what heaven is like for me.

I believe that we are put here on earth as a test. We are supposed to enjoy ourselves here, and spread joy. That is our only task. Embrace and love the short life given to us. Find our joy, follow it and prosper. It is quite a test to follow your bliss. It’s the greatest test of all. Living life fully.

But back to my original point: Do we control our deepest inner urges? We have to explore, and gain experience to unearth who we are to ourselves. We do not know who we are, because every different place, every different situation redefines who we are, over and over. In the past 10 years I have been able to succeed enough to have every day free. Trust me, I’m always working, thinking etc, but all my time is free, because I decide. I love that. However free time is not always time well spent. It can become empty time. Lonely time. Sad time. Time can become anything. I had to learn that I had to be smart about what I’m doing with my newly acquired time, and to use my time better. I am still trying to do this. I find myself spinning my wheels a bit, because I really didn’t have a plan beyond getting away from punching in at a job I hated for 7 years. It took me over 6 years to create, automate, and shop out my business ideas until I was not part of anything that is day to day (until something goes wrong, then I have to work). I never had a complete plan of what to do with my time, and now I have a surplus of the most valuable item in the universe: time. I do intend to work out a few more new business ideas, but it’s going slower than I really want, and I think it’s because I need help.

I don’t like to pressure my ideas too much or they get shy. They’ll come at the right time. Way back when I was building “my empire” I thought once I succeeded my goal of separating myself from the day to day function of my business, I’d spend most of my days playing with May, holding hands, running through fields of daisies. But May’s a busy momma now. She’s not even here in this giant empty house. I see her at lunch and after 10PM most days. I’m in a strange situation. I have followed every intuitive feeling I’ve had in life, and to look at the achievements, one would be amazed, however the pursuit for balance and happiness are still going on stronger than ever, because I still haven’t gained it. I feel like I’m just starting over, and I guess I am.

The best solution so far for me is to just dive in and continue to be a creative artist. I’ve been very busy making sexy videos with May, recording May’s strip karaoke music, music videos, flash animation, the super spy chick movie, all these things come from my spare time. I stay creative and busy, but I still yearn for the next step. What to do with it all… I’m just an artist in my house, and my only exposure is this blog. We need to collaborate to get bigger.

Anyone out there with any skills that would like to collaborate? You guys know us pretty well, we’ve been right here for over a decade sharing everything we do. We have assets and ideas I need help with. I cannot do it alone. May and I have a ton of DV XXX videos all in DVD-R format with menus, never released, a couple book ideas we’ve already started, lots of creative sexy projects, and we need an agent most of all. A person that will in one way or another see possibilities in our various media, and for a percentage, help all these projects live a fruitful life. We need someone connected. We create media, videos, photos, content, ideas, niches, and surprises a plenty, just the two of us, but we know with a machine behind us, it could be much more than it is. Are you out there? Finding you is part of my life’s test right now, so I’m using every vehicle under my control to do so. We need someone that would want to replicate and distribute our XXX DVDs, we need a publisher that would like to publish the sexy photo story of May Ling Su, and lots of other side projects too numerous to list now. Comment below if you have any ideas.

- Jay