The Slut Wife

May Ling Su the slut wife redefines marriageWhen I started blogging in 2002, I wrote a diary of a young wife exploring sex and marriage. My husband and I wanted to defy stereotypes of what marriage was supposed to be and redefine it according to our needs. We were non-monogamous and adventurous from the start. We threw ourselves into edgy situations. Sometimes it was fun. Other times we got hurt. Through it all I blogged about it. I wrote about hot steamy sex and I wrote about loss.

With experience came mistakes. My biggest mistakes defined me: I was a selfish, careless, and neglectful lover to my man. Ironic, isn’t it? There I was, projecting myself as some kind of internet sex goddess while my marriage was falling apart in my hands. I took my blog down. I felt like a fraud. I tried to fix my marriage with boring, timid contrition. It didn’t work. The more I tried to fix my mistakes, the more mistakes I made. I stopped trying, which was an even bigger mistake.

May Ling Su sexy nurse and fantasy slut wife upskirt white pantyhoseOur relationship needed to be healed! We needed a sexy nurse, stat! My husband has always believed that a slut, his fantasy wife, could save our marriage. I was a slut, but I was like a wild animal who belonged to no one but myself. I called to question the very concept of marriage. Even for a non-monogamous couple like us, marriage still seemed as unrealistic an expectation as a fantasy wife. I wavered between wanting out and sticking it out. I searched my soul only to find that the me I want to be looks uncannily like my husband’s fantasy wife. It became clear that if I wanted to stay married to him, I needed to be the fantasy wife who would save our marriage. I needed to prove to my man that not only was I a slut, I was his slut. I wanted to give myself completely to him. I wanted him to own me, body and soul. I wanted to go all the way. An extraordinary man, he teaches me everyday how to be an extraordinary slut.

I’m starting a new blog to remind myself of all the lessons I am learning about how to save my marriage by being a caring, attentive, creative, slutty wife. I am no longer a blushing ingenue. I am a woman of experience. I hope my blog inspires young couples who want to avoid the pitfalls of marriage, as well as older couples looking to shake away the doldrums. I hope it helps single men and women get clearer on how to navigate sexual relationships that are tailored to their own personal needs. And if you’re in a troubled relationship, I hope this blog reminds you that there is a light at the end of the dark tunnel you are in and that it could come from the unlikeliest of places.

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Love, Lust, and Liberty,
May Ling Su