Legend has it that ancient Egyptian Queen Cleopatra used to summon her male slaves to bathe her in semen. I thought of her while I lay on white Egyptian cotton sheets letting my men unload on my face.

Clipped from: www.esquiremagazine.ph (share this clip) The article about me published in last month’s Esquire Philippines is now online. Go read my interview with Gang Badoy and check out the art by Gamo Tuano. It’s so lovely!

Every morning I park my soccer mom van next to his muddy truck. We drop our kids off to school. He goes in to work at the local surfboard shop he owns while I walk my dog on the beach. …

My mother is unapologetic about her cosmetic surgery. She had work done around the age of fifty: eyebags removed, deep-set creases added to her previously uncreased asian eyelids, wide nose tapered into a button nose, double chin removed and a …

My story of coming out to my parents is on The Red Umbrella Diaries, a collection of personal stories about sex work by people who have tangled with the sex industry. The Red Umbrella Project founder, Audacia Ray, hosts storytelling …

August is World Breastfeeding Month. I didn’t want the month to end without sharing my breastfeeding story with you. As soon as my baby was born, I marveled at how intuitively she latched on to my nipple. I didn’t immediately …

Can I tell you a secret? I feel really awkward everytime I let so much time pass between blog entries. It’s like, if I don’t touch base with a lover after we’ve been together, and let too much time pass, …

Good Vibrations launched a new website just in time for Mothers Day. Good Vibes Sexy Mama is an excellent resource for Moms who want to keep their sex lives exciting, learn lessons in sex-positive parenting, and get special shopping deals …