It’s the eve of my birthday. I spent the past few nights wide awake thinking, “What’s next?” One of the best pieces of advice I ever got from my Dad was: choose the option that opens me up to the …

We stayed at the Victorian Truckee Hotel. We went to bed past midnight. Dawn came up through the white lacy curtains way sooner than my body wanted it to. While Jay and our little one slept in, I walked my …

I’m not a religious person, but this song by Leonard Cohen moves me. Music is the closest we can claim to be in the presence of the Divine.

Do we control our deepest inner urges? Why does one thing turn us on, and another not turn us on, or even turn us off… What makes us who we are? I have read about studies on humans, that if …

Hey, it’s Jay. It’s been a difficult month getting back into the “swing” of things. After a year in Maine visiting family, getting back to our California lifestyle has it’s ups and downs. Over the past year, May continued to …

This past month has been an emotional roller coaster ride for me. For much of it my feelings were a foggy mess, and I needed to get to a place of resolution before I blogged about it. Our story has …

Hey, it’s Jay. This whole thing of Max Hardcore being sentenced to 5 years of jail for obscenity charges is freaking me out. I wanted to blather on a bit to see if I could come close to how I feel …