Clipped from: www.esquiremagazine.ph (share this clip) The article about me published in last month’s Esquire Philippines is now online. Go read my interview with Gang Badoy and check out the art by Gamo Tuano. It’s so lovely!

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My story of coming out to my parents is on The Red Umbrella Diaries, a collection of personal stories about sex work by people who have tangled with the sex industry. The Red Umbrella Project founder, Audacia Ray, hosts storytelling …

Jay found my scene with Max Hardcore on a porn tube site. Most large porn companies don’t like the tube sites because users upload videos without permission, and I assume without royalties to the producers of the videos. Some porn …

Censorship makes revolutionaries out of ordinary people. True, pornographers are hardly ordinary people. We tend to have a voluptuous interest in sexual expression, one that exceeds the confines of our bedrooms. But we, pornographers, are simple folk. We are triggered …

Lately I’ve been thinking about the Philippines and doing some research online about sex workers rights in the Philippines. Feminism in the Philippines seems to take the staunch anti-porn/anti-prostitution position. I believe that promoting women’s rights means that sex workers …

Springtime is for airing things out, cleaning, pruning… I’ve been busy. I’ve put off so much work that I am now getting to. I’m dealing with a certain webmaster who is infringing on my copyrighted materials (thank you to my …

Hey, it’s Jay. This whole thing of Max Hardcore being sentenced to 5 years of jail for obscenity charges is freaking me out. I wanted to blather on a bit to see if I could come close to how I feel …